I really wish that this wasn’t even a topic to discuss at all. I wish that breastfeeding wasn’t taboo in any circles at all. Women should be allowed to breastfeed whenever and wherever they want.
I am guilty myself of being too modest/shy/embarrassed to breastfeed in public. I avoid it all costs. I get upset with myself for acting this way, I should be a pioneer to show people that breastfeeding is the way and there is nothing to be ashamed of.
Part of the problem is all the horror stories I have heard about mothers feeding their baby in public, only to have a complete stranger walk over and tell them that they are being offensive. Of all the things in this world that are offensive, breastfeeding is NOT one of them.
I admire the women that are skilled enough at breastfeeding that they can discreetly use a sling a breastfeed their baby without anyone suspecting a thing. I struggle with my baby’s latch on the left side, and have the over active letdown, so I just feel like it would be a night mare for me.
I am going to challenge myself to gradually ease myself into feeling comfortable with breastfeeding in public. Not to make a show of it, but to be natural in satisfying the needs of my baby when he needs me to do so. I urge all women who breastfeed to take a stand, be bold and breastfeed wherever your little heart desires. The more women do this, the more quickly outdated attitudes will change. ![]()

October 9th, 2007 at 1:06 am
hi there, i am one breastfeeding mother and i proudly breastfeed in public.
it is hard in the first place, but you just have to be confidence to do so.
at least, you know you are trying to provide the very best for your baby.
there are several tips on public breastfeeding like this one
http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/breastfeeding/nursing_public.html
anyway, if you still are facing difficulties, then i might want to suggest you to pump the milk into a bottle.
either way, it is for the sake of the best for the baby, ain;t it?
good luck.
November 28th, 2007 at 9:42 am
I’m not usually so modest, but when it comes to breastfeeding I am. I think it’s because I’m afraid of being confronted by someone that thinks it’s sick/gross/whatever, so if I’m out in public I just go back to my car. I guess I feel like it’s safer there.